
This is an important phase for you to pour in your support. Remember that they haven’t spent time working through the pressures of life the way you have. They might be “adults” now, but they are new adults. Ask them if they need help managing these adult tasks they have now inherited, and there will likely be a lot. You will be giving them the tools and the fuel to take off like a rocket into adulthood, and to do so successfully.
They are more capable than ever: They are juggling a lot. There’s keeping their GPA up, applying for college, applying for scholarships, graduation, preparing for what’s next, jobs, doing many things for the last time, serious relationships, etc. They are worrying about these things as much as you are. They will be strapped for time and stressed out. Take time to check in with them and see how they're doing. Remind them that you are proud of and love them!
They are emotionally developed: You might find your student drawing closer emotionally. You are no longer “uncool.” Take advantage of the time you have with them! You might have to schedule it more than you used to, but that’s what adults do! Try to enjoy the present with them while everything else is pulling them into the future.
The Three Most Important Things to Remember.
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I’m the Youth Pastor at Christ Community. I'm thrilled to partner with you in guiding and discipling your student. They are the leaders of today, anointed with compassion, inclusion, and a passion for change. Student ministry involves the entire family, so if I can support you or if you'd like to grab a coffee, please reach out!
CCStudents is for seventh through twelfth graders and meets every Wednesday from 6-8 pm at Zoe's Cafe in downtown Greeley.